long distance vs lazy

Now this subject is something that has been bothering me for a minute now. Havent you noticed that sometimes the people you have more in common with are far away compared to another person who is closer to you? Through my years I have come into contact with alot of women, beautiful women i must say, who would be perfect for me but of course the distance becomes a issue and im not for the long distance thing, it just doesnt work out. Now if there is a person who likes you or is into you and they are close enough to see but it seems like its a long distance thing then thats just lazy. Now theres a difference between long distance and lazy and its quite obvious. For example I know a girl, a friend in her eyes ( but thats another story), who at one point lived literally 5 minutes away from me and always talked about hanging out and stuff like that but of course she was full of hot air but now she recently moved out to tracy and all of a sudden wants to make an attempt to hang out and stuff and im like no I dont want too you had a chance to when you were down the street. Shes the definition of a lazy friend. Not even being up to the standard of a friend just a somebody. Now with her being lazy in the beginning I eventually gave up and moved on to someone else to hang out with who wasnt lazy. She shouldnt be complaining to me about why I dont hit her up anymore, why I havent asked about hanging out! Well what do you think?!?!?! You cant expect for someone to sit around and put up with your laziness eventually they will move on and when you finally realize what happened its too late because to the other person you no longer exist.